CHANGE YOUR DATING REALITY

CHANGE YOUR DATING REALITY
BY: DAVID LEVINE
i want to share with you the key to finding the right one
and getting married the quickest way possible --
GUARANTEED.

it's not hard, doesn't cost any money, and takes only
ABOUT ONE MINUTE A DAY. YOU ALREADY HAVE ALL THE TOOLS YOU
need to make it happen, you just need to apply this for
one minute every day.

what will guarantee that you find the right one and get
married the quickest way possible? a key ingredient is to
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, AND I AM GOING TO SHOW YOU WHY IT
works, and how to do it the right way.

THE WORD "MANIFEST" MEANS TO TURN A THOUGHT INTO A THING.
everything you see around you -- cars, houses, the table,
a pen -- were all once thoughts that someone turned into a
REAL OBJECT. WHEN YOU MANIFEST SOMETHING, YOU MAKE IT
appear in the real world. now as a single person, you have
an idea that you want to get married, and what you want to
DO IS MANIFEST THAT IDEA INTO REALITY, TO BE STANDING
under the marriage canopy.

A KEY UNDERLYING FORCE THAT ALLOWS YOU TO MANIFEST AN IDEA
into reality is to believe you can do it. we can all
relate to times where the situation looked bad, but
THROUGH SHEER WILL AND DETERMINATION PEOPLE BEAT
insurmountable odds.

CONSIDER A LIFE-AND-DEATH SCENARIO OF BEING OUT IN THE
wilderness alone. gordon smith, an instructor who spent 26
years in the u.s. army's special forces, says: "if you
HAVE A GUY WITH ALL THE SURVIVAL TRAINING IN THE WORLD WHO
has a negative attitude, and a guy who doesn't have a clue
but has a positive attitude, i guarantee you that the one
WITH THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS COMING OUT OF THE WOODS
alive. simple as that."
http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/69/fighttosurvive.html

this heightened motivation of people in dire situations
appears to be the force that gets them through. but that's
NOT THE WHOLE STORY. THE AMAZING THING IS WHAT HAPPENS
behind the scenes, the real secret to success. there is a
stronger metaphysical component at work here.

remember the six day war and the yom kippur war? the tiny
state of israel was surrounded by hostile arab countries
NUMBERING OVER 200 MILLION PEOPLE. WHAT HAPPENED? THE ARAB
countries should have wiped israel off the map in short
order. instead, israel beat them all. miracle!

we call it a miracle when we see a dramatic change in
reality. in those wars we see an obvious change of reality
-- HOW GOD CHANGED A PENDING DEFEAT INTO COMPLETE VICTORY.

on a smaller scale, you can use the same principle to
GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL GET MARRIED QUICKLY. LET'S
explain:

WHEN YOU BELIEVE IN SOMETHING, THE SHEER FORCE OF YOUR
will can give god reason to support your goal. based on
your belief, god actually changes reality to make the
THING THAT YOU WANT COME ABOUT. FOR EXAMPLE: YOU WANT TO
get married, and if you believe with total conviction that
you will find the right one, then god can take your will
AND ACTUALLY CHANGE REALITY TO CAUSE YOUR SOUL MATE TO
come to you.

LET'S LOOK AT THE SOURCE OF THIS IDEA, A STORY IN THE
talmud (taanit 8a) about "the weasel and the pit." in the
story, a young man promised to marry a certain woman. she
ASKED: "WHO WILL BE THE WITNESS TO THIS PLEDGE?" THE ONLY
things in the area at the time were a pit, and a weasel
walking by. with no other option and in all sincerity, the
YOUNG MAN SAID THAT THE WEASEL AND THE PIT SHOULD BE THE
witnesses.

TIME WENT BY, AND THE YOUNG MAN FORGOT HIS PLEDGE. THEN HE
began experiencing serious hardships -- each time
involving a weasel or a pit. in the end, he realized why
THESE THINGS WERE HAPPENING, AND RESOLVED TO KEEP HIS
pledge. he married the woman, and the misfortunes stopped.

RABBI CHAIM SHMULEVITZ GIVES INSIGHT ON HOW THIS WORKS.
obviously, the weasel and the pit have extremely limited
powers. yet when the young man initially designated them
TO BE HIS WITNESSES, GOD TOOK HIS SINCERITY INTO ACCOUNT
and actually changed the reality to give the weasel and
the pit the ability to uphold the promise.

the same principle is true for you. if you really believe
in something, god may change reality so that it comes
ABOUT.

however, this powerful idea is a double-edged sword. just
AS IT CAN WORK TO YOUR BENEFIT, IT CAN BE TO YOUR
detriment by bringing about something that is bad for you.
let's say you meet a really great person on a date, and
DECIDE THAT YOU ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY MUST MARRY THIS
person.

IN REALITY, THOUGH, YOU MAY BE TEMPORARILY INFATUATED WITH
this person, and in fact they are really bad for you --
and marrying them will be a disaster. yet if you will it
HARD ENOUGH, AND ARE OVER-INSISTENT, IT IS POSSIBLE THAT
god will allow you to marry that wrong person.

THAT'S WHY, WHEN YOU ARE DATING, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS ASK GOD
to help you marry the "right person" and not any specific
person.

to summarize, there are two ways you can use this
principle positively:

1) believe in yourself.

IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE AND
get married, then god can change the reality to make it
happen.

2) ask god to bring you the right one.

THE KEY HERE IS TO ASK FOR "THE RIGHT ONE," AND NOT "THAT
one."

ON A PRACTICAL LEVEL, YOU NEED TO MAKE YOUR BELIEF REAL,
by manifesting this idea -- everyday, once a day, for one
minute.

here's how to do it:

1) SAY OUT LOUD: "I AM READY TO GET MARRIED NOW. I AM
ready to meet him/her today. i am committed to being a
giver in the relationship, rather than a taker."

2) make one small effort to find them: check for the
newest members on a dating website. call a matchmaker.
SIGNUP FOR A SPEED DATING EVENT. CALL A FRIEND AND TELL
them what you are looking for.

SMALL, CONSISTENT STEPS IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS. "BY THE
inch it's a cinch, by the yard it's hard." meaning, if you
take one small action every day, your small efforts turn
OUT TO BE SIGNIFICANT OVER TIME. YOU DON'T NEED TO WORK
hard, just be consistent.

THE MORE CONSISTENT YOU ARE, THE MORE YOU REINFORCE YOUR
belief. by saying positive statements and making small
efforts, you send a bigger message to god, who can make it
HAPPEN.

one of my mom's favorite sayings is, "think big, be big."
AND IT IS VERY TRUE.

"think marriage, get married."

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Mind Blowing Online Dating Advice by April Mayes

Mind Blowing Online Dating AdviceSome of the most important keys to successful online dating is to keep it simple, casual and fun. You deserve to discover the little-known secrets to have a passionate online dating experience. You will be amazed at how easily this article helps you to uncover some of the most successful online dating secrets that will help you find your soul mate.Do: Get the most out of any online dating services your use. Have a catching profile title and include an attractive (recent) picture of yourself. Your photo is often the first thing they will look at. Make sure to have one that is nice-looking and inviting. Ask a good friend or family member to help you pick out the best photo and work with you on your dating profile; for many of us our friends see our best qualities better than we do ourselves. Once your profile is updated, spend some time looking around the site, sending and responding to any messages you may have received. Don't: Never come across as crass, rude, or having your interest in just sexual possibilities. A lot of things can turn people off, and these types of discussions are not appropriate when you are first getting to know a person. You can be sure that emails of this nature are usually deleted as soon as they are received. Do: Find common interest. Having common interests can be a building block to any relationship. Find out activities that interest you both are interested in such as: Dating services offer many methods for singles to meet together in an up-beat manner. Keep that same frame of mind when dating by always ending your online chat session or date on a positive note, even if you think they don't want to talk with you again. It will make you feel better about how you conducted yourself and show your date you are optimistic about any possible future relationship. Internet Dating Safety Tip: If you notice the other person repeatedly avoids an equal sharing of information, end all communications immediately! Don't: Settle for Less: There really is no denying whether or not you have a physical attraction to someone. When it comes to dating online, the chemistry is either there or it's not. Don't try and force yourself to feel something, the person you are with might either be feeling the same way, or setting themselves up for heart break. Take the first step and call it off, if it just isn't there.Do: Help them to feel like they can comfortably talk with you. As you meet someone who peaks your interest, it is natural to feel curious about them. It is if perfectly normal to ask both yes and no questions and open-ended questions. By creating conversations out of mutual interests you will keep the conversation alive and going.Don't: Come across over eager by emailing more than once before they reply back. People that do this only appear annoying and needy. You cannot convince someone to like you or feel differently about you by means of sending bothersome emails.Do: Always set up your first date at a public place and at a reasonable time of day - late afternoon or early evening. Make sure you end the date while there are still other people present. Provide your own transportation to and from the date location. If you should both agree to go to another location, always use your own transportation and call a friend and let them know about the change in plans. Don't: Discuss Marriage or Your Future Plans. Discussing marriage and children on your first date will most likely increase your chances that you won't have a second date. These kind of conversations are too pushy and even frightening when you're first meeting someone or new in a relationship. It can make your date feel like they are being interviewed to be your future spouse, and is not something you should put on them all at once!Dating services offer many methods for singles to meet together in an up-beat manner. Keep that same frame of mind when dating by always ending your online chat session or date on a positive note, even if you think they don't want to talk with you again. It will make you feel better about how you conducted yourself and show your date you are optimistic about any possible future relationship.
About the Author
April likes writing on many different subjects and believes that readers will be informed by her distinct style of communication.
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Dating Online - The new way to meet people

Dating Online - The new way to meet people
by: Jeff Lakie
A lot has changed since the days of matchmaking and escorted evenings out. Dating in the 21st century has taken many turns, among these the emerging popularity of meeting partners online.
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